Tantra isn’t just about S*x
Many of you may have seen my insta reel about writing a letter to my old self last week. So many people had said have a “funeral” for her but I don’t see my old self as “dead”. My past self is part of me, an expression of me, an aspect of my essence and I wish to integrate her.
Why?
Because if it wasn’t for her, I would not be where I am. If I had always been this way, my path would look incredibly different.
Although mostly unconscious, “past”me did so much of the work that brought me here. I had a burning desire and interest in so much about the human psychology, biology, sexuality and condition.
I was fascinated by self healing and what the body could do.
I deep down felt that how society has been created was not sustainable.
I could feel the rage in my womb around the suppression of all expression’s especially the feminines.One of the things I love most was reading and researching sexuality. I have listened to so many podcasts:
Shameless Sex
True Sex and Wild Love
The Aubrey Marcus Podcast
Read so many books:
Attached - Amir Levine and Rachel S. F. Helle
The Ethical Slut-Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy
Sex at Dawn- Chris Ryan
Tantra: Discover the Path from Sex to Spirit by Shashi Solluna*
Untrue- Dr Wednesday Martin
Women Who Run With Wolves:Myths and Stories of the Wild Woman Archetype-Clarissa Pinkola Estés
And much much more….
I found it so fascinating on a physical, sensual, spiritual and energetic level.
Sex is one of the reasons for our creation. With that comes pleasure and desire, we have suppressed these two aspects of sexuality for SO long BUT this isn’t just on sexual act level. We have suppressed these in all aspects of our lives.
I feel the reason for my intense curiosity around our sexuality is actually down to my own journey of wanting full desire and pleasure in ALL aspects of my life.
Over the last few weeks, this curiosity has been greater than ever but one word keeps dropping into my space, Tantra.
Tantra is all about sex and sex parties, right?
The western assumption of Tantra isn’t truth, actually “Tantra is a path of healing, or becoming whole.”
It is about bringing the body and spirit together as one by balancing the masculine and feminine energies.
Yes, it works with sexual energy, because that is our Life Force, we are birthed from sexual energy. Our creations are birthed from sexual energy and desire.
These signs catapulted me back to the years of reading, listening and research I had done into all of the sexual, womb space and energetic topics, from years ago.
I have recently started a Tantra Yoga course which is so beautiful and working with Sacred Sexuality, Orgasmic Breath and yin/ yang balances to start my day.
The divine timing of this dropping in for me is no coincidence. My new offering Ignite came through as a creation around the same time as these signs began popping up.
Ignite is an offering that has been called through to help you connect to and express your desires, joy, pleasure and wild woman.
As a space holder, I can never hold a space deeper than I have gone myself. These tantric initiations are coming in to allow me to bring these to a community of women ready to express their highest selves.
I am so excited to see what will unfold.
If you want to come on this journey with me, why not check out my new offering Ignite.
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