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This isn’t a sex course. It’s a nervous system rebirth.

Most women don’t realise that their “issues” in the bedroom aren’t actually about sex — they’re about safety.

They’re about stored survival, disconnection from the body, shame around desire, and a nervous system that still lives in bracing rather than receiving.

It’s Not About The Orgasm™ is an evergreen self-led initiation into safety, desire, intimacy, and embodiment — no performance.


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If you want real pleasure, you have to heal where pleasure actually lives — in the cervix, the womb, the nervous system, and the stories your body still holds.

Who is this for?

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This work is for the woman who feels:

  • Disconnected from her body

  • Shut down during sensual or sexual experiences

  • Tension or pain instead of pleasure

  • Shame, fear, or avoidance around intimacy

  • Desire that feels muted or inconsistent

  • The wish to feel confident, alive, and deeply safe again

This is for the woman who knows there’s more life inside her body than she’s currently living.

This work is deep.
It’s tender.
It’s liberating.
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What you’ll learn…..

✨ Release somatic imprints held in the pelvis and nervous system

✨ Reconnect with your body as an ally

✨ Open to pleasure without fear or tension

✨ Heal intimacy blocks at the root

✨ Build safety so pleasure feels welcome

✨ Reclaim desire, magnetism, and expression

✨ Align sensual aliveness with presence and self-leadership

What is it really?

This is not about technique.

This is not about orgasm as a goal.

This is about rebuilding desire from the body up — starting with safety.

Women who do this work experience:

✨ More ease in their nervous system

✨ Less fear around intimacy

✨ Greater connection to pleasure

✨ Increased confidence in their body

✨ Capacity to receive without performance

✨ A richer erotic identity that feels like home

Your body doesn’t open because your mind changes words.

It opens when it feels safe again.

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Two Ways to Join…..

SELF-LED INITIATION — €666

Lifetime access to the full programme, designed to be slow, somatic, and nervous-system-led.

For 6 weeks you will receive:

✔ Guided practices

✔ Somatic teachings

✔ Integration prompts

✔ Embodied frameworks

✔ Space to move at your own pace

This option is for women who want to reconnect to their body and desire with internal regulation first.

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*VIP* SUPPORTED INTEGRATION — €1,444

Everything in the self-led initiation, plus:

✔ 2 x 1:1 private integration calls with Niamh

  • Call 1: Orientation + Intention + Safety Planning

  • Call 2: Integration + Embodiment + Next Steps

This is for women who want relational holding while they integrate — without pressure.

This is for women who want support while re-calibrating desire, regulation, and access to soft states.

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What to expect?

This programme is rich and deep, not rushed. It includes:

  • Somatic teachings

  • Guided practices

  • Journal practices

  • Reflections that build safety

  • Embodied movement, awareness, and presence

Instead of trying harder, you learn to let your body feel safe enough to soften.

That’s the work.

Let the Women speak for themselves…..

  • Niamh I just want to say thank you so so much for holding this container and sharing your amazing knowledge & wisdom with us all. You have fulfilled your purpose by creating community. I'll hold you with me along my journey every step of the way moving forward you won't understand the impact you have all made on me as an individual. So transcendental so thank you all for your magic

    Rennae

  • So I did the sexual reprogramming practice last night... and WOOOOWWW!!! I have I was never felt more empowered in my own essence ever in my life anxious going into do the practice as I expected it to be activating and emotional, which is was, but in a deeply empowering way. Thank you so much Niamh

    Sinead

  • I really enjoyed the journey of experiencing the pleasure itself without needing to reach orgasm at the end (even though that's what spontaneously happened eventually) but definitely being mindful to slooooooow things down were not in any rush and pussy was really receptive to that Beautiful practice. Thank you Niamh

    Aisling

  • I loved the video Niamh, firstly your energy is on fire Secondly, you make so many powerful points in what you say. That alone brought up a lot, and the journal prompts did not disappoint in that either However, I love how the sequencing of the journal prompts always brings you back to empowerment as you work through them. Thank you, Niamh

    Sinead

You don’t enter this work to fix something missing.

You enter it to reclaim something that was lost — presence, safety, desire, and softness without collapse.

If your body is whispering yes, listen.

✨ Choose your pathway below. ✨

Self-Led (€666)

Supported (€1,111)

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